thetafferboy wrote:
Interesting. When I was in the dive shop the guy was basically telling me to buy the best regs I could afford.. I dunno. I just want something that works, safe and can do nitrox with

Most regs out of the box will do 40%. Any reg is fine.
I use Mares Abyss regs, no flow controls yet will supply enough air for anyone. Can be modified for cold water, Yoke/DIN 232/DIN 300B and is solid.
For stage cylinders I like Aqualung Calypso regs which are a tough breath and very unlikely to free-flow.
Komodo, the flow control is supposed to be used exactly what you use it for. High performance regs can freeflow if used as an octopus, rarely if it's in your mouth when you go into the water.